Dementia doesn’t just affect memory—it transforms how people interact with the world around them, including those they love. If conversations with your loved one have become more difficult, it can feel like you’re drifting apart. But by shifting your approach, you can still find closeness in unexpected ways.
Providing Memory Care at Home? Start With Sensory Memories.
Feelings often stick around longer than details. Instead of asking your loved one to recall an event, say something like, “The smell of cinnamon always brings back cozy memories with you.” This type of statement may stir a smile or spark a gentle emotion, even if they can’t articulate it.
Allow Room for Imagination
If your loved one talks about something that isn’t real or recent, it may feel natural to correct them—but doing so can be upsetting. Try acknowledging their emotion instead. If they say, “I need to catch the bus,” reply with, “You always had places to be—so dependable.” Then gently guide the moment forward.
Build Connection Without Conversation
Talking isn’t the only way to bond. Go for a walk together, look through a photo book, or do something simple like folding towels side by side. Shared tasks and peaceful moments go a long way in creating comfort.
Laugh Whenever You Can
Even in the midst of dementia, people can still enjoy a joke or chuckle at something silly. Humor can make the day feel lighter and help you both relax into the moment. It reminds you that the relationship still includes joy.
Ask for Help When You Need It
Navigating memory care at home and dementia communication can be exhausting, especially if you feel like it’s up to you to “get it right.” Letting someone else step in—even for an afternoon—can restore your energy and improve your connection with your loved one.
Superior Senior Home Care provides compassionate dementia support in Santa Maria, Nipomo, Santa Ynez, and beyond. Our experienced caregivers prioritize connection, calm, and individualized attention in the comfort of home. If you’re ready to explore how we can support your family, call 805-737-4357 today.